
Your Relationship Archetype
One of three patterns Esther sees again and again — named, explained, and matched to the version of you sitting on the other side of the screen.
A free 2-minute quiz that reveals your dating dynamic, what’s actually keeping you stuck, and the personalised next step Esther would recommend if you sat down with her.
Designed by Esther Sarphatie — relationship coach, B.S. in Psychology, teaching 2M+ women worldwide
Free. 2 minutes. Personalised result.
You keep meeting men who feel different at first and end up exactly the same — and you don’t know why it keeps happening to you.
He’s wonderful when he’s there, vague when you ask where it’s going, and you’re starting to feel crazy for needing an answer.
Half your friends say leave, half say give it time, and underneath it all you can’t tell whether you’re the problem or he is.
You’ve tried every app, every coach on Instagram, every “how to text him” PDF — and you’re more confused about men than when you started.
You know you want to do the work, you just don't know which part of your love life to look at first.
Eight honest questions about where you are right now — and a personalised result that tells you exactly what to do next.

One of three patterns Esther sees again and again — named, explained, and matched to the version of you sitting on the other side of the screen.

The specific block underneath your archetype — whether it’s how you read men, how you set the tone, or what you’re doing inside yourself first.

A clear path forward — the exact framework, course, or session Esther would point you to if you came to her in a 1:1.
8 questions. One honest answer. Sent straight to your inbox.
Enter your details below — you’ll get your archetype in under 2 minutes.
Take the quiz this week and you’ll get these alongside your personalised archetype.
Drawn from this week’s quiz takers, 3 winners
One insight a day, written for your archetype
WHAT YOU GET
Esther Sarphatie is a relationship coach and B.S. in Psychology with a worldwide audience of over 2 million women across Instagram, TikTok, and her newsletter. After two decades spanning Greek national television, fitness, psychology, and now relationship work, Esther teaches women how to understand love, men, and themselves — without losing themselves in the process. Her courses, sessions, and writing are built on one belief: that clarity is the first thing that changes everything. The Relationship Archetype Quiz is the fastest way to get hers.
Yes. The quiz, your archetype, your recommended next step, and the 5-day email series are all free. No credit card, no trial, nothing to cancel.
Around 2 minutes. Eight questions, all multiple choice, all written so you can answer honestly without overthinking.
As soon as you finish the last question, your archetype loads on screen. A copy lands in your inbox within a few minutes so you have it to come back to.
No. You’ll get the 5-day email series tied to your archetype, and occasional notes from Esther after that. One click to unsubscribe whenever you want.
It probably will more than you think — these patterns are wide on purpose. If you’re genuinely between two, your result will name both and tell you which one to start with.
No. Your result will recommend the path Esther would point you to, but the quiz works whether you buy something or not. Plenty of women take it just for the clarity.
Women looking for a “make him chase you” trick or a 24-hour fix. Esther’s work is for women who want to actually understand what’s happening in their love life and do something about it.
Free. No credit card. No spam.